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three before my lady is ready to leave。; 

     After   a   silence   of   some     minutes�察  �during   which   he   appeared   to       be 

turning these remarks over in his mind�察�the young Oriental resumed�此 �The 

single men who absorb so much of your women's time and attention are 

doubtless      the   most    distinguished      of  the   nation�察    �  writers�察  �poets�察   �and 

statesmen�拭─�

     I was obliged to confess that this was not the case�察�that�察�on the contrary�察�



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the   dancing     bachelors    were    for  the   most   part   impecunious      youths    of 

absolutely   no   importance�察  �asked   by   the   hostess   to   fill   in�察  �and   so   lightly 

considered that a woman did not always recognize in the street her guests 

of the evening before。 

     At this moment my neighbor's expression changed from bewilderment 

to admiration�察�as a young and very lovely matron threw herself�察�panting�察�

into a low chair at his side。 Her decollete was so daring that the doubts of 

half   an   hour   before    were   evidently   rising    afresh   in  his  mind。    Hastily 

resuming my task of mentor�察�I explained that a decollete corsage was an 

absolute   rule   for   evening   gatherings。 A  woman   who   appeared   in   a   high 

bodice or with her neck veiled would be considered lacking in politeness 

to her hostess as much if she wore a bonnet。 

     ;With   us�察  �women   go   into   the   world   to   shine   and   charm。   It   is   only 

natural they should use all the weapons nature has given them。; 

     ;Very good� ─�exclaimed the astonished Ottoman。 ;But where will all 

this   end�拭  �You   began   by   allowing   your   women   to   appear   in   public   with 

their faces unveiled�察�then you suppressed the fichu and the collarette�察�and 

now you rob them of half their corsage。 Where�察�O Allah�察�will you stop�拭─�

     ;Ah� ─�I answered�察�laughing�察 �the tendency of civilization is to simplify�察�

many things may yet disappear。; 

     ;I understand perfectly。 You have no prejudice against women wearing 

in public toilets that we consider fitted only for strict intimacy。 In that case 

your ladies may walk about the streets in these costumes�拭─�

     ;Not at all� ─�I cried。 ;It would provoke a scandal if a woman were to 

be seen during the daytime in such attire�察�either at home or abroad。 The 

police and the law courts would interfere。 Evening dress is intended only 

for   reunions   in   private   houses�察  �or   at   most�察  �to   be   worn   at   entertainments 

where   the   company   is   carefully   selected   and   the   men   asked   from   lists 

prepared by the ladies themselves。 No lady would wear a ball costume or 

her jewels in a building where the general public was admitted。 In London 

great   ladies   dine   at   restaurants   in   full   evening   dress�察  �but   we Americans�察�

like the French�察�consider that vulgar。; 

     ;Yet�察�last winter�察─�he said�察 �when passing through New York�察�I went to 

a great theatre�察�where there were an orchestra and many singing people。 



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Were   not   those   respectable   women   I   saw   in   the   boxes�拭  �There   were   no 

MOUCHARABIES to screen them from the eyes of the public。 Were all 

the men in that building asked by special invitation�拭�That could hardly be 

possible�察�for I paid an entrance fee at the door。 From where I sat I could 

see that�察�as each lady entered her box�察�opera´glasses were fixed on her�察�and 

her `points��' as you say�察�discussed by the crowd of men in the corridors�察�

who�察�apparently�察�belonged to quite the middle class。; 

     ;My poor�察�innocent Padischa�察�you do not understand at all。 That was 

the opera�察�which makes all the difference。 The husbands of those women 

pay enormous prices�察�expressly that their wives may exhibit themselves in 

public�察  �decked   in   jewels   and   suggestive   toilets。  You   could   buy   a   whole 

harem of fair Circassians for what one of those little square boxes costs。 A 

lady whose entrance caused no sensation would feel bitterly disappointed。 

As a rule�察�she knows little about music�察�and cares still less�察�unless some 

singer is performing who is paid a fabulous price�察�which gives his notes a 

peculiar charm。 With us most things are valued by the money they have 

cost。 Ladies attend the opera simply and solely to see their friends and be 

admired。 

     ;It   grieves   me   to   see   that   you   are   forming   a   poor   opinion   of   our 

woman   kind�察  �for   they   are   more   charming   and   modest   than   any   foreign 

women。 A  girl   or   matron   who   exhibits   more   of   her   shoulders   than   you�察�

with   your   Eastern   ideas�察  �think   quite   proper�察  �would   sooner   expire   than 

show an inch above her ankle。 We have our way of being modest as well 

as you�察�and that is one of our strongest prejudices。; 

     ;Now I know you are joking�察─�he replied�察�with a slight show of temper�察�

;or    trying   to  mystify    me�察  �for  only   this  morning     I  was    on  the   beach 

watching the bathing�察�and I saw a number of ladies in quite short skirts ´ 

up   to   their   knees�察  �in   fact   ´   with   the   thinnest   covering   on   their   shapely 

extremities。 Were those women above suspicion�拭─�

     ;Absolutely�察─  �I   assured   him�察  �feeling   inclined   to   tear   my  hair   at   such 

stupidity。 ;Can't you see the difference�拭�That was in daylight。 Our customs 

allow a woman to show her feet�察�and even a little more�察�in the morning。 It 

would be considered the acme of indecency to let those beauties be seen at 

a ball。 The law  allows a woman   to uncover her neck   and shoulders at   a 



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ball�察�but she would be arrested if she appeared decollete on the beach of a 

morning。; 

     A long silence followed�察�broken only by the music and laughter from 

the   ball´room。   I   could   see   my   dazed   Mohammedan   remove   his   fez   and 

pass an agitated hand through his dark hair�察�then he turned�察�and saluting 

me gravely�察�murmured�此�

     ;It is very kind of you to have taken so much trouble with me。 I do not 

doubt that what you have said is full of the wisdom and consistency of a 

new civilization�察�which I fail to appreciate。; Then�察�with a sigh�察�he added�此�

;It   will   be   better   for   me   to   return   to   my   own   country�察  �where   there   are 

fewer     exceptions    to  rules。;   With   a  profound     salaam    the  gentle   youth 

disappeared   into   the   surrounding   darkness�察  �leaving   me   rubbing   my   eyes 

and asking myself if�察�after all�察�the dreamland Oriental was not about right。 

Custom makes many inconsistencies appear so logical that they no longer 

cause us either surprise or emotion。 But can we explain them�拭�



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        CHAPTER 29 ´ Modern ;Cadets 

                             de Gascogne; 



       AFTER witnessing the performance given by the Comedie Francaise 

in the antique theatre at Orange�察�we determined ´ my companion and I ´ if 

ever   another   opportunity   of   the   kind   offered�察  �to   attend�察  �be   the   material 

difficulties what they might。 

     The     theatrical   ;stars;   in   their  courses     proved    favorable     to  the 

accomplishment of this vow。 Before the year ended it was whispered to us 

that the ;Cadets de Gascogne; were planning a tram through the Cevennes 

Mountains and their native Languedoc ´ a sort of lay pilgrimage to famous 

historic and literary shrines�察�a voyage to be enlivened by much crowning 

of   busts   and   reciting   of   verses   in   the   open   air�察  �and   incidentally�察  �by   the 

eating of Gascony dishes and the degustation of delicate local wines�察�the 

whole     to  culminate     with   a  representation     in  the  arena    at  Beziers   of 

DEJANIRE�察        �Louis    Gallet's  and   Saint´   Saens's    latest  work�察   �under   the 

personal supervision of those two masters。 

     A tempting programme�察�was it not�察�in these days of cockney tours and 

;Cook;   couriers�拭  �At   any   rate�察  �one   that   we�察  �with   plenty   of   time   on   our 

hands   and   a   weakness   for   out´of´the´way   corners   and   untrodden   paths�察�

found it impossible to resist。 

     Rostand�察�in CYRANO DE BERGERAC�察�has shown us the ;Cadets; of 

Moliere's time�察�a fighting�察�rhyming�察�devil´may´care band�察�who wore their 

hearts on their sleeves and chips on their stalwart shoulders�察�much such a 

brotherhood�察     �in   short�察 �as   we   love   to  imagine     that  Shakespeare�察    �
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